A Father's Influence

As a father, I think often about the impact that I have (and have had) on the lives of my children. When they were young, my children bought me a coffee cup (actually their mom bought it for them for me :-)). Written on the cup was the following Bible verse (Proverbs 20:7 NKJV):

The righteous man walks in his integrity; His children are blessed after him.

I have tried to live with that verse in mind. Two key words in my life have been a) passion and b) integrity. I've mentioned that I want them on my headstone :-).

I was reading through Proverbs recently and came across something I had never noticed before. I've read Proverbs many times and I'm constantly amazed at how God's Word comes alive at just the right time and new truths are revealed to me as my eyes are opened.

Read the following about an incredible influence of a father -- King David.

Proverbs 4: Wisdom is Supreme (NIV) - By Solomon (David's son)

1 Listen, my sons, to a father's instruction; pay attention and gain understanding.

2 I give you sound learning, so do not forsake my teaching.

3 When I was a boy in my father's house, still tender, and an only child of my mother,

4 he taught me and said, "Lay hold of my words with all your heart; keep my commands and you will live.

5 Get wisdom, get understanding; do not forget my words or swerve from them.

6 Do not forsake wisdom, and she will protect you; love her, and she will watch over you.

7 Wisdom is supreme; therefore get wisdom. Though it cost all you have, get understanding.

The entire chapter is a continuation of this instruction from David to Solomon. I thought this was a great example of a legacy where David poured into his son, Solomon. Then when asked by God what he desired, Solomon chose what? -- he chose wisdom. He could have chosen anything, but he chose wisdom.

Pour into your children. Model the lifestyle you want them to lead. Allow them to learn from your experiences. They will hear you. Live LOUD!